Belonging

I have 654 friends in facebook, others may perceive it, that I'm friendly. There maybe some others who would think that I don't have enough and I don't really care. When the social networking site Path has emerged in the web, it purposely limited your friends list up to 50. As it grows, they increased it to 150. Why?

They want to connect you to the right people.

I am not tossing coins here between Facebook and Path. An idea implanted in my frontal lobes just wishes that things regarding relationships are just as easy as Path is trying to do.

Connecting you to the right people.

Relationships can be stressful sometimes. Attachment is a party pooper. Expecting much from people is like standing on the verge of a cliff. The tendency is you'll die in paranoia or you drift away from the crowd by decision. It happens.

What you are is unique. Do not expect other people to do things the same way you do it. What's innate in you is not innate in him. Screaming and explaining who you are in verbatim is feeble. You have to feel the connection. To be able to connect, like in most wireless networks, you have to have the password.

Sense of belonging.

Everybody needs it. It is not achievable by scientific methods. Human nature rules when you're up to get it.

You do not always look for what benefits you. You do not always say the right words to impress other people. Most of the time, you have to say the wrong words to teach them a lesson. However, we must avoid profanity. Adding flavourful SHITS and FUCKS in your language will not put you at the top of the foodchain. Being boastful of your unpleasant deeds will not make you REAL. It just creates an idea that will be proven through time. Even law courts need time to hear both sides and provide judgement.

Connect to the right people.

I wish am connected. If not, experience's credit limit is infinite. I can always charge it to him.